Wedding after 7 years of LDR from 15000km

My name is Zoltán Sándor Dobóczi, I'm a hungarian EU citizen, and I work and live in the Netherlands since 2022. Since I started working here, my mother became very sick, and her spine was operated 2 times, and her knees are very sick also. I wanna marry the love of my life now to make my mother happy, and I hope happiness will make her much healthier, and she gets well soon from her cancer. I did plan to work here until I pay out my debts, I still have around 10000€ left to pay out everything, then I can marry her and bring her infront of my mother, and have a wedding ceremony in Europe also, to make my mother happy, please help me, I'm afraid I don't have time to make my beloved ex-arts teacher mother who did do a lot for the arts, please help me to make her happy with my wedding with the love of my life.

Our love story started online on 15. 04. 2019. We fallen in love with talking about anything, and we wanted to engage in 2020, then marry soon aswell. Then covid started and my flight cancelled, and after a few months we lost every contracts for 4 years, I tried to search her, and finally found in the End of 2024, and meet first time in the End of september 2025. And then I went there again in january for 3 weeks to meet her family and engage with the love of my life after 7 years of LDR and searching for her. I can bring her in front of my mother only after I married her in Indonesia, and I wanna do a wedding ceremony with my other also, but She can't travel, that's why I ask help for reach my life goal sooner, and make my mother happy, because She has cancer, and I'm afraid I never van make her happy, please help for her happiness.